When considering a divorce, most people think that they will need a lawyer, and some seek out the help of a therapist. But did you know that there is also a professional, called a certified divorce coach, that can help you through the process? A divorce coach is not a lawyer or a therapist, but …
The Single Biggest Mistake People Make in Negotiating Their Divorce Settlement
Today I want to talk about one of the biggest mistakes that I see people make when they are negotiating a divorce settlement with their spouse. And more often than not, this mistake happens when there is a power imbalance in the relationship. In other words, one spouse has always been the “alpha-dog” of the …
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How Do You Know When to End Your Marriage?
Deciding how and when to end your marriage is an extremely difficult decision and not one that should be taken likely. If you have been married for any length of time, you understand just how difficult marriage can be. So how do you decide whether the fights and struggles and difficulties you are having in …
How to File for Divorce in Cary, North Carolina
Transcript, “How to File for Divorce in Cary, North Carolina” Hey there, Jim Hart here from the Hart Law Firm. I am a divorce and family law attorney here in Cary, North Carolina, and today I want to talk to you about how to file for divorce. In North Carolina, the process of filing for …
Does Alimony hurt your ability to qualify for a mortgage?
I recently received an email from a past client that got me scratching my head. Here is the email (with identifying information removed to protect the innocent and so as not to divulge protected client information…): Hey Jim, I just wanted to let you know my current situation so that you can use it as …
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5 New Years Resolutions for anyone recently separated or divorced
Making the decision to leave your spouse is extremely difficult, and not without consequences. If you are in a toxic, bitter relationship, leaving may be the best thing you can do for yourself and for your children. There are times when the grass is greener on the other side. I’ve worked with hundreds of individuals …
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Should you get divorced before the end of 2013?
If you are just starting to think about getting divorced, and you live North Carolina, then you are pretty much out of luck to get divorced in 2013, or 2014 either for that matter. The process to get divorced in North Carolina is a long one, and starts with getting separated from your spouse. Once …
Divorce can be a time to reinvent yourself
Maybe you are going through a divorce right now, or maybe you are just thinking about it. There are lots of things about divorce that really stink. When looked at in comparison to life’s major stressors, such as death of a loved one, losing a job, bankruptcy, etc., divorce is right up there at the …